How to Fix our Goal- Part I , अपना लक्ष्य कैसे निर्धारित करें-Part I
हम अपना लक्ष्य कैसे प्राप्त करें ?आज सबसे बड़ी समस्या ये है की हम कौन सा अपना लक्ष्य और कैसे निर्धारित करें। माँ -पिता अक्सर अपने बच्चों के जीवन का लक्ष्य निर्धारित करते हैं ,उनको करना भी चाहिए लेकिन वहां हो जाती हैं जब माता-पिता अपने बच्चों की प्रतिभा और इंटरेस्ट के विरुद्ध उस लक्ष्य को निर्धरित कर देते हैं
1 जिस फील्ड में माता -पिता नहीं जा पाये।
2 जिस फील्ड में रिश्तेदारों,मित्रों या पड़ोसिओं के बच्चे पढाई कर रहे हैं या काम कर रहे हैं।
3 जिस फील्ड में धन कमाने की संभावनाएं अधिक हैं।
हम यहीं गलती कर जाते हैं। कोई भी फील्ड संभावनाओं रहित नहीं है। महत्वपूर्ण यह है की बच्चे को अपना स्वतंत्र जीवन जीना है तो ये तभी सम्भव हो सकेगा जब वह अपनी रूचि का फील्ड चुने। अगर वो अपनी रूचि का फील्ड चुनता है तो वह पूरी शक्ति व पूरी ख़ुशी के साथ अपने लक्ष्य को प्राप्त कर लेगा।
हरेक माता पिता अपने बच्चे को डॉक्टर ,इंजीनियर या फिर कलेक्टर , पुलिस अधिकारी बनाना चाहता है। आप जब गौर से देखेंगे तो पता चलेगा की स्कूल में पढ़ने वाला बच्चा नब्बे -पिचानवे प्रतिशत अंक लेकर परीक्षा में उत्तीर्ण होता है लेकिन जैसे ही वो कॉलेज या यूनिवर्सिटी में जाता है उनका ग्राफ निचे आने लगता है।
आज के बच्चों पर पढाई का बहुत भारी बोझ है जिसने बच्चो से उनका बचपन ही छीन लिया है।
प्रिय विद्यार्थियों !
हम मैं आपको कुछ सामान्य सी टिप दे रहा हूँ जो आपको अपना कॅरियर बनाने में काम आ सकती हैं --
याद रखिये ,
हमेशा सकारात्मक रहने के लिए सकारात्मक साहित्य पढ़िए , सकारात्मक विचारधारा वाले दोस्तों से बातें करें।
किताबों को पहले पेज से पढ़ते हुए आगे बढ़ें, किताब को केवल पढ़ने के लिए नहीं पढ़े अपितु उसको समझने के लिए पढ़े, साथ में कुछ खली पेज रख लें ताकि आप साथ की साथ नोट्स बनाते रहे। प्रारम्भ में आपकी स्पीड कम रहेगी बल्कि मैं आपको सलाह दूंगा की शुरू में आप पढ़ने की गति कम ही रखें।
पढ़ते समय ये महसूस करते रहें की जो भी कुछ आप पढ़ रहे हैं वो सारा का सारा मैटर आपके राइट हैंड ब्रेन में रिकॉर्डिंग हो रहा है। प्रारम्भ में ये प्रक्रिया आपको असहज लग सकती है लेकिन मेरा दावा है की यदि आपने इसे अपने अभ्यास में ढाल दिया तो फिर आप देखेंगे की आपकी मेमोरी पावर बहुत बढ़ गयी है।
पढाई को आनन्द लेकर पढ़ें जैसे आप अपना मनपसंद सीरियल या पिक्चर देखते हैं।
आप अपने लक्ष्य को निर्धारित करके पूरी ईमानदारी और निर्लिप्त भाव से कर्म करना शुरू कर दे , कर्म रोजाना निरंतर करना अनिवार्य होगा।
कभी कभी परिणाम किन्ही कारणों से विपरीत प्राप्त हो जाते हैं अतः अपने गलतियों को महसूस करके पुनः अपने लक्ष्य की ओर बढ़ें , हताश न हों।
अक्सर हम टाईमटेबल खूब बनाते हैं किन्तु उसके मुताबिक कर्म नहीं कर पाते, या फिर कल से करेंगें आज तो बहुत थकान हो रही है या आज तो मूवी देखी है या फिर मन आपको न जाने कैसे कैसे बहानों में उलझा देगा। आपको मन की नहीं सुननी है। आपको अपनी आत्मा की आवाज को सुनना है। जब आपकी आत्मा और आपका शरीर एक सीध में आ जायेंगे तो आप की नॉलेज आपको अपना लक्ष्य दिलवा देगी। आप अपनी समस्याओं के मेरे साथ शेयर कर सकते हैं।
शेष निरंतर जारी। ........... Dr.Krishan Bir Singh Chauhan.........
Today the biggest problem is which one we should set and how. Parents often set goals for their children's lives, they should also, but are there when parents set that goal against their children's talent and interest.
1 Field in which parents could not be found.
2 The field in which children of relatives, friends or neighbors are studying or working.
3 The field in which the chances of earning money are high.
We make mistakes right here. No field is free of possibilities. It is important that the child has to live his independent life, then it will be possible only when he chooses his field of interest. If he chooses his field of interest, he will achieve his goal with full power and happiness.
Every parent wants to make their child a doctor, engineer or collector, police officer. When you look closely, you will find that the child studying in school passes the exam with ninety-five percent marks but his graph starts coming down as soon as he goes to college or university.
There is a huge burden of studies on today's children, which has taken away their childhood from children.
Dear students!
I am giving you some simple tips which can help you in making your career -
Remember,
To always be positive, read positive literature, talk to positive-minded friends.
Continue reading the books from the first page, do not read the book only to read it, but read it to understand it, keep some blank pages together so that you keep making notes together. Initially your speed will be low, but I would advise you to keep your reading speed low initially.
While reading, keep feeling that whatever you are reading, all of the matter is being recorded in your right hand brain. Initially, this process may seem uncomfortable to you, but I claim that if you upgrade it in your practice then you will see that your memory power has increased a lot.
Read the study with pleasure as you watch your favorite serial or picture.
After setting your goals, start doing karma with full sincerity and uninteresting, it will be mandatory to do karma daily.
Sometimes the results are achieved due to any reason, so realize your mistakes and move towards your goal again, do not get frustrated.
Often we make a lot of timetables, but are unable to do the work according to it, or will do it from tomorrow, today it is very tired or today you have seen the movie or how the mind will not let you know how to get into the excuses. You do not have to listen to the mind. You have to listen to the voice of your soul. When your soul and your body come in a straight line, then your knowledge will get you your goal. You can share your problems with me.
Remaining Continued. .........
1 Field in which parents could not be found.
2 The field in which children of relatives, friends or neighbors are studying or working.
3 The field in which the chances of earning money are high.
We make mistakes right here. No field is free of possibilities. It is important that the child has to live his independent life, then it will be possible only when he chooses his field of interest. If he chooses his field of interest, he will achieve his goal with full power and happiness.
Every parent wants to make their child a doctor, engineer or collector, police officer. When you look closely, you will find that the child studying in school passes the exam with ninety-five percent marks but his graph starts coming down as soon as he goes to college or university.
There is a huge burden of studies on today's children, which has taken away their childhood from children.
Dear students!
I am giving you some simple tips which can help you in making your career -
Remember,
To always be positive, read positive literature, talk to positive-minded friends.
Continue reading the books from the first page, do not read the book only to read it, but read it to understand it, keep some blank pages together so that you keep making notes together. Initially your speed will be low, but I would advise you to keep your reading speed low initially.
While reading, keep feeling that whatever you are reading, all of the matter is being recorded in your right hand brain. Initially, this process may seem uncomfortable to you, but I claim that if you upgrade it in your practice then you will see that your memory power has increased a lot.
Read the study with pleasure as you watch your favorite serial or picture.
After setting your goals, start doing karma with full sincerity and uninteresting, it will be mandatory to do karma daily.
Sometimes the results are achieved due to any reason, so realize your mistakes and move towards your goal again, do not get frustrated.
Often we make a lot of timetables, but are unable to do the work according to it, or will do it from tomorrow, today it is very tired or today you have seen the movie or how the mind will not let you know how to get into the excuses. You do not have to listen to the mind. You have to listen to the voice of your soul. When your soul and your body come in a straight line, then your knowledge will get you your goal. You can share your problems with me.
Remaining Continued. .........
Dr.Krishan Bir Singh Chauhan
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