Child Psychology and Your Frustrations

 

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             The subject is very sensitive and serious. Sensitive because we often do not pay any attention to the child's personal thoughts, far from understanding the child's mind, brain and his feelings. Let us pay attention to just one thing - whatever we could not develop in our life or to achieve the status which we could not achieve, we start implanting those thoughts in the mind of our children from childhood itself. Or if we look at the children of our relatives, friends, then directly or indirectly we create this concept that my child should overtake all these children and go ahead. We begin to feed our frustrations into his ears in a very melodious lyrical style while lulling or caressing the child. Why does every parent want their children to be doctors? Why does he want to be the king? We present the mobile screen as soon as the child opens his eyes to this world. That newborn baby faces hours through video calls. We neither care about the soft eyes of the baby nor the deadly radiation emitted from that mobile. When the baby is a little older, weeps naturally, then we make a good friendship with a mobile with a big screen. In future that child becomes addicted to that mobile. As soon as the child is three years old, we throw him into a competition that the child had not imagined. First of all, on the pretext of educating, we take away the childhood of that child. The indirect reason behind this is the development of tendency to live in nuclear family. I have a few basic questions for every parent - 1 Don't like lyric music? 2 Do you not appreciate the grandeur of a painting or construction of a building? 3 Do you avoid praising the one who makes the fine food? 4 Don't you admire a fine tailor 5 Are you not looking for good teachers? Friends ! These are just examples. It is meant to say that in a world every action is very special in itself. If we truly love our child, then we have to stop interfering in his personal life from the very beginning. We make arrangements for the best education for the child. To make him morally characterful, take him in the company of the best teachers. Do the whole industry of making him strong spiritually and physically so that in future that child can be able to face any biggest trouble with full prudence. Despite this, whatever attitude he wants to adopt with his mind, will and soul, should not be stopped. Let us not make the child a victim of our repressed frustrations. Indian literature should be taught to the child. In short, it is a request to all the parents that the child whom you have taken as your property is really you are confused. You are only a medium. He is a free spirit. He has an existence of his own. Imagine that you too had come to this world through your parents. Before cursing or humiliating the new generation, we should cultivate it. If you have cultivated the child, then he will become the best himself. Trapped in materialism, both husband and wife go to work. Children have a mad or aaya turn. You have no idea what he does throughout the day. Just on the basis of money, you make him happy by getting him admitted in schools with grand buildings. Respected, understand child psychology and know the process of making him a better person. Money cannot buy sacraments. Don't be materialistic or else that is what will happen. The old age home is ready for you because you have not given proper introduction to your child towards yourself, towards your family, nor towards your country, as a result the child has settled abroad. Two losses occur simultaneously. You spoiled your old age by making that child anti-social. Second, he left the country in which he became knowledgeable by reading and writing. Think about the consequences of your personal frustrations. If you want to discuss with me in detail about this topic then write me on an mail -

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